IN THIS ISSUE:
FRONT ROW
Youth- and School-Based Sports:
• Bad Behavior Spurs Crackdown in CA, MA
• Two Comments to Ponder
• The Cost of Hazing Just Went Up
Collegiate Sports: Two Ways to Prevent Fan Misbehavior
Professional Sports: So…Bloodsports Are Okay If They’re Outside the U.S.?
Jocks Behaving Badly:
• How Can You Toss a Coach Who Won’t Leave?
• Think You Know Hazing? Welcome to Sumo
• Too Bad It Wasn’t the Bates Motel
Jocks Behaving Exceptionally:
• Three Ways to Honor Your Opponents
• Player’s Sacrifice Helps Another Fulfill His Dream
• Team’s Sacrifice Helps Opponent Win Crown
• “This Is Something I Will Not Forget in a Long Time”
• Sometimes Nice Guys – and Gals -- Finish First
Michael Josephson Commentary: No One Gets a Free Pass
SIDELINES
Announcements
Trivia Test: What Famous Person Is This Story About?
Sportsmanship User's Guide: Sports Values Shape National Values
You Make the Call: Should Athletes Who Participate in Animal Bloodsports in Foreign Countries Be Prosecuted Here?
Principle of the Month: A Classy Way to Right a Wrong
Say What?
Upcoming Seminars
Trivia Test Answer
Feedback
War is the only game
in which it doesn't pay
to have the home-court advantage.
-- Dick Motta, basketball coach
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FRONT ROW
YOUTH- AND SCHOOL-BASED SPORTS
Bad Behavior Spurs Crackdown in CA, MA
In Marin County, California, two recent incidents involving irate parents at San Marin High School basketball games proved to be "the final straw" for the school. Parents of all 19 spring sports athletes on varsity, junior varsity, and freshman teams will now be required to sign a code of conduct contract.
Marin County Athletic League Commissioner Sue Woodall told the Marin Independent Journal, "What upsets me the most is that every incident has been on the junior varsity or freshman level. If we don’t change this culture of bad behavior now, we will have problems in the future."
In Massachusetts, legislators have introduced a bill that would provide schools and sports leagues across the state with free sportsmanship materials. It would also create a pilot program to help children develop "self-control in an effort to reduce violence, bullying, and other destructive choices" by teaching them how to visualize scenarios they’re likely to encounter during a game and how to respond.
Grayson Kimball, education director of Getpsychedsports.com and one of the bill’s backers, said he used the method during workshops with athletes and coaches in a Connecticut high school, and the school promptly won the best sportsmanship award in the league.
Josephon Institute also offers national sportsmanship training seminars, products, and publications for youth sports, middle schools, high schools, colleges, and the Olympic level. Click on these links or go to http://JosephsonInstitute.org/sports.
[www.marinij.com, 2/7/08; www.bostonherald.com, 2/10/08; www.metrowestdailynews.com, 2/12/08]
There is nothing noble in being superior
to your fellow men.
True nobility lies in being superior
to your former self.
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YOUTH- AND SCHOOL-BASED SPORTS
Two Comments to Ponder
After 40 years of lamenting about bad sportsmanship, Chicago Tribune sports columnist Barry Temkin wondered in a recent column if the battle was worth fighting anymore. Then he got this letter from a coach:
“When winning is more important than developing young people’s character, it forces coaches into making poor disciplinary decisions. Players who should be suspended are left on the floor simply to win a basketball game. We all know that winning one game is a very short-term goal. A day or two after the victory is achieved, the game is forgotten. Teaching acceptable behavior is a life-long lesson.
“As long as coaches are so caught up on winning, they will sacrifice the most important part of their job: the development of the moral character and responsible social behavior of young Americans.”
California Interscholastic Federation associate executive director Roger Blake told Signonsandiego.com that fans also have a responsibility: “You have to look at each situation as a classroom. If a student was making a presentation in the classroom, would it be all right to boo? No, that’s disrespectful.
“Kids watch TV, see the Duke crazies and try to emulate them or go to Qualcomm Stadium and see those fans. Those participants are adults. These are high school students – there is a difference.”
[http://chicagosports.chicagotribune.com, 2/17/08; www.signonsandiego.com, 2/19/08]
It is positive to want to go first,
provided the intention is
to pave the way for others.
Competition is negative when we wish
to defeat others, to bring them down
in order to lift ourselves up.
-- Tenzin Gyatso, the 14th Dalai Lama
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YOUTH- AND SCHOOL-BASED SPORTS
The Cost of Hazing Just Went Up
Here’s a nice little nightmare scenario to contemplate. Let’s say a hazing incident occurs at a high school in your town. The parents of the victim decide to sue. But instead of targeting the school, they go after the town.
That’s what happened in Fairhaven, Massachusetts. After a football player at Fairhaven High School was physically and sexually abused by teammates at a training camp in 2006 and after he and his parents were "treated as criminals" for reporting the crimes, the family declared it wants $1 million from the town within six months. If Fairhaven doesn't cough up, the family will file a civil complaint, which could cost the community much more.
Ouch. "I kind of suspected sooner or later it would end up to this," said Michael Gagne, a School Committee member at the time of the incident. "Clearly, the school system dropped the ball on this poor kid."
And now on the entire community.
[www.southcoasttoday.com, 2/15/08]
The man who has won millions
at the cost of his conscience is a failure.
-- BC Forbes, financial journalist (1880-1954)
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COLLEGIATE SPORTS
Two Ways to Prevent Fan Misbehavior
With abusive fans becoming a recurring story around the country, it’s refreshing to see two schools taking action to preempt such incidents.
• Minnesota State University. In a press release announcing the launch of its new Fan Sportsmanship Initiative, MSU Director of Athletics Kevin Buisman said that although the campus doesn't have a fan problem, "We are implementing a few changes that can keep us moving in that direction." The university’s new campaign includes: handing out a fan-behavior expectations letter to all students who buy on-campus tickets, reading student-athletes’ statements and the NCAA Sportsmanship Statement before every game, running public-service sportsmanship announcements before each game, displaying sportsmanship posters and flyers in high-visibility areas, and modifying or eliminating band music that promotes vulgar language.
• UCLA. After freshman basketball player Kevin Love and his family endured a barrage of obscene chants from "The Pit" at Oregon’s McArthur Court in January, UCLA officials were concerned that its student section might retaliate when Oregon played at Pauley Pavilion. It sent an e-mail to the student support group urging them to enjoy the game with class and refrain from making personal comments.
The student group’s president Matt Monges told the Los Angeles Daily News, "The last thing [we want] to do is be a poor representative of UCLA. We’re so proud of the way Kevin handled that, the least we can do is show the same maturity he showed on the court." No incidents occurred during the game.
[www.dailynews.com, 2/22/08; www.pe.com/sports, 2/22/08]
I celebrate a victory when
I start walking off the field.
By the time I get to the locker room,
I’m done.
-- Tom Osborne, football coach
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PROFESSIONAL SPORTS
So…Bloodsports Are Okay If They’re Outside the U.S.?
Let’s see if we’ve got this straight: Football player Michael Vick was sentenced to 23 months in prison for dogfighting, but baseball players Pedro Martinez and Aramis Ramirez got a free pass for cockfighting. Both bloodsports are illegal in the U.S.
There are several theories for this discrepancy, all of which have ruffled more than a few feathers:
It’s legal overseas, so it’s okay. In the Dominican Republic, cockfighting is not only lawful, it’s second in popularity only to baseball. Martinez was filmed ceremoniously starting a cockfight in the Coiseo Gallistico de Santo Domingo, the country’s largest cockfighting stadium where fights are tracked on an electronic scoreboard, waitresses serve beer and empanadas, and generals, politicians, and celebrities have their own parking space with their name on it.
It’s my culture, so it’s okay. Whoopi Goldberg argued that dogfighting is ingrained in the Southern culture so it’s excusable. She must have forgotten about slavery. Other wonderful cultural practices around the world that come to mind are cannibalism, human sacrifice, child labor, and genital mutilation (the last two are still with us).
Everybody hates roosters and bulls, so it’s okay. Nobody likes roosters, and bulls try to kill you. Plus we eat them. But dogs are lovable, are kept as pets, and we don’t eat them – unless we’re in Asia. By this logic, Major League Baseball would have said nothing if Martinez and Ramirez had been doing legal dogfighting in their country and the NFL would have still banned Vick indefinitely if he had been doing illegal cockfighting.
The final word goes to two bloggers at Finiq.com. Jubanator14 wrote: "No offense, but it is a cultural and societal norm of OUR culture to judge people and tell them about it, and it is legal for us to do so."
And hskrdave wrote: "What guy doesn’t like a cat fight?"
What do you think about this issue? Cast your vote in this issue's online poll at You Make the Call or e-mail your viewpoint to us at jwood@jiethics.org.
[www.msnbc.msn.com, 2/7/08; http://sports-law.blogspot.com, 2/7/08; http://joyofsox.blogspot.com, 2/8/08; http://askfig.blogspot.com, 2/15/08; www.faniq.com, 2/19/08]
I learn teaching from teachers.
I learn golf from golfers.
I learn winning from coaches.
-- Harvey Penick, golf pro and instructor (1904-1995)
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JOCKS BEHAVING BADLY
How Can You Toss a Coach Who Won’t Leave?
Referees hate when that happens. During a basketball game between Estacada and Molalla in Clackamas, Oregon, the 17-year-old referee called two technical fouls on Molalla’s coach Jeffery Scott Larsen and ejected him. Furious, Larsen slammed his clipboard down on a female scorekeeper’s hand, cutting her.
Compounding matters, he refused to leave the game floor, as prescribed by law. Standing in a corner of the arena, he continued to harass the referee and coach his players throughout the remainder of the game, inciting the fans of both schools.
Not surprisingly, both bleachers stormed the floor, the coach assaulted the referee, and his assistant coach went after Estacada’s principal. "Many girls were frightened, crying, and fleeing the building with their parents," Estacada’s principal told police afterward.
Oh, did we mention these were sixth-grade girl’s teams?
[www.salem-news.com, 2/17/08]

Think You Know Hazing? Welcome to Sumo
Swallowing sand. Lighting your feet on fire. Being beaten with bamboo swords. Just another day for apprentice sumo wrestlers in Japan.
When junior wrestler Takashi Saito, 17, collapsed at his sumo stable last September and died, his death was listed as heart failure. That was until his parents viewed his body. It was covered with bruises, deep cuts, half-torn ears, and burns on his legs. After an investigation, three senior wrestlers and the stablemaster were arrested for beating the wrestler to death.
Explaining that "this was an ordinary practice," stablemaster Junichi Yamamoto admitted striking the victim with a beer bottle during dinner. He also said he scolded the boy during the beatings: “I’ve never seen a jerk like you! You must feel sorry for your father, who bowed his head and asked me to take care of you!”
The boy had repeatedly pleaded with his father to take him away, but his father had talked him out of it. "He said he’d be a good boy," his father told reporters through choked tears. "I’m the worst parent."
The three wrestlers said that after the teenager had left the stable without permission, they forcibly dragged him back to the stable, denied him food, tied him to a pillar, assaulted him over two days with wooden sticks and a metal baseball bat, and subjected him to a 30-minute-long intensive sparring round – extraordinarily long by sumo standards – until he collapsed.
Sumo hazing, called petting, is a long tradition. Muneyoshi Fujisawa, a 55-year-old retired wrestler who spent 20 years in the ring, remembered having to endure salt and sand being shoved into his mouth and a bamboo sword used on him. "I was beaten and beaten," he told the AFP news agency. But that wasn’t the worst of it. "Tired after a long trip, I was taking a nap. I had a dream of my feet on fire and they actually were."
The Prime Minister has urged the nation to examine the sport, and the Japan Sumo Association says it will look at how young sumo are trained.
But it may be too late. Few men take up the violent sport anymore. The sumo authority approved only 87 new novices in 2006, down 60 percent from 1992. "Children take up golf, soccer, and other sports," said a veteran sumo journalist. "Their parents don’t send them to the scary world."
[www.cnn.com; www.hanknuwer.com/blog, 10/4/07; www.japantimes.co.jp, 9/27/07, 2/10/08, 2/14/08]
Too Bad It Wasn’t the Bates Motel

Hockey players know how to retaliate after a cheap shot. But not when they’re drunk.
When members of the Jamestown Vikings, a professional minor-league team in Jamestown, New York, who had not been paid for two months and were living in substandard housing, heard their owner Andrew Haines announce he was suspending the league’s 2007-2008 season to "reorganize," they decided to get even.
Hearing that Haines had just bought the town’s centuries-old Vikings Lodge, they got drunk and pillaged the historic building, causing tens of thousands of dollars in damage, then passed out among the wreckage.
When they sobered up, they learned that the deal for the hotel had not yet closed and that they had trashed a Florida owner’s historic landmark. They face felony criminal mischief charges, are out of the league, and probably will be having their share of the damages deducted from whatever pay they get in the future.
[The Buffalo News, 2/16/08]
Either love your players
or get out of coaching.
-- Bobby Dodd, football coach (1908-1988)
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JOCKS BEHAVING EXCEPTIONALLY
Three Ways to Honor Your Opponents
• Georgia Vanquish Fastpitch Softball Association, Woodstock, Georgia. For the past five years, the Georgia Vanquish presents an MVP award to a player from the opposing team after every game.
"We travel all over the Southeast, and it never fails that someone has heard about the medals," Vanquish president Brett Bunch told us. "We have athletes and parents come up to us at tournaments and talk about the medal they got or their child got. This is a critical time when kids are trying to decide whether they want to keep playing or not. If we can help by giving them a reward, I’m all for it."
• O’Gorman Intermediate School, Timmons, Ontario. The following letter was written to the Timmins Daily Press:
"My son’s team played against O’Gorman knowing they were going to get wumped. But the coach of the O’Gorman squad has taught his team great sportsmanship. They never let their lead get to more than a 10-point difference, and whenever one of our players would score, the whole O’Gorman team would clap. It ended with overtime and smiles on the boys’ faces. The parents in the stands enjoyed the game and commented on the sportsmanship displayed by the boys and the coach."
• San Lorenzo Valley High School, Felton, California. The following letter was sent by a St. Francis Central Coast Catholic High School parent to SLV swimming coach Aron Conger:
"My son Taylor is a swimmer for the St. Francis Sharks. Your athletes put sportsmanship first in front of competition. Some of the Shark swimmers were worried they would be laughed at because some are slower swimmers. Even when an SLV swimmer would finish far ahead of a St. Francis swimmer, they would stay in the pool until all swimmers finished and made a point to congratulate them. Seeing this behavior in high school students was very inspiring. Your coaching and your team definitely set a great standard of excellence for all to follow."
[www.timminspress.com, 2/14/08]
Player’s Sacrifice Helps Another Fulfill
His Dream
Two days before the Little Athletics carnival last month at Narrabeen Academy of Sport in Sydney, Australia, favored 100-meter sprinter Kane Thompson, 15, tore a hamstring. But he showed up anyway, hoping for a miracle.
He was one of five runners to compete; only the fastest four would qualify. Since Thompson could not run, he walked the 100 meters distance. It took him 33 seconds to finish. He did not qualify.
Matthew Mountfort, 14, who had already qualified for the discus and shot put, finished fourth in the 100. But he knew after the race what he wanted to do. "I spoke to my friends and my mum and said I should probably withdraw for him. If he hadn’t been injured, he would have made it through to state and broken a couple of records along the way. He’s been working for this for half his life, and I knew this was the last chance he’d get to go."
When he walked up to Thompson and told him what he was doing, Thompson couldn’t believe it. "I was shocked. I never would have expected a competitor from another club to do that for me."
[www.northshoretimes.com.au, 2/8/08]
Team’s Sacrifice Helps Opponent Win Crown
At the end of the Mission Trail Athletic League boy’s high school soccer season in California Interscholastic Federation’s Central Coast Section, two teams finished on top: Gonzales (8-1-1) and Soledad (7-0-3).
Some officials thought the new bylaw was in effect, which rewards three points for a win. In that case, Gonzales would win. Others felt the old bylaw still applied, which rewards two points for a win. In that case, the two teams would tie and Soledad would win based on head-to-head record.
The MTAL rulebook revealed that the new ruling had mistakenly not been put into effect.
Gonzales High, which had benefited from the old ruling two years ago in a similar situation, took the position that the league should use the system this time as well, even though it would cost them the championship. "Kudos to Gonzales," MTAL Commissioner Tim McCarthy wrote to the CIF. "What a wonderful sportsmanlike stance to take and to model for their students."
Other schools seconded their gesture. Soledad’s Principal Roberto Nunez wrote: "That is nothing short of showing a class act, and we are honored to be mentioned in the same breath with Gonzales."
Anzar Athletic Director Chris Wardlaw: "I was impressed with the altruistic nature of the coaches during the Anzar v. Gonzales matches this winter. I witnessed coaches demanding that their players assist fallen Anzar players. Doesn’t surprise me that Gonzales would take this stance in this matter."
"This Is Something I Will Not Forget
in a Long Time"
In the Mid-Hudson Valley in Poughkeepsie, New York, Millbrook and Webutuck high schools are bitter rivals. But a little-noticed gesture during a recent basketball game changed one Millbrook spectator forever.
At one point in the game, a Millbrook player collapsed to the floor with cramps in both legs. During the injury time-out, the Webutuck coach gathered his players to diagram a play. All except one. All-star player Alex Kravchuk remained on the floor. He was helping Millbrook’s coach stretch out the injured player’s legs.
"In the heat of the moment in an intense game, this kid stopped and helped a player in need for the other team," spectator Shawn Stoliker wrote in a letter to the Poughkeepsie Journal. "As a coach and teacher who loves to stress sportsmanship, this is something I will not forget in a long time. I will never remember the score or who won in years to come, but this was awesome to watch. If there was some kind of award I could give him, I would. I hope this gets back to him."
[http://pojosheahan.blogspot.com, 2/9/08]
Sometimes Nice Guys – and Gals – Finish First
Hollywood loves to make heartwarming sports movies like Hoosiers and Rocky, but they have nothing on the real thing.
• North River High School, Brooklyn, Washington. A white picket fence encircles it. Its largest graduating class was 24 – in 1936. Its nine-man basketball roster comprises three-quarters of the boys in the school. Its tiny gymnasium’s basketball court is 10 feet narrower and 20 feet shorter than regulation size. Two years ago it had back-to-back winless seasons.
Despite these challenges, the Mustangs are renowned for their sportsmanship, winning the league’s sportsmanship trophy three years in a row, including one season in which they lost every game by blowouts.
"They’re just such wonderful kids," rival coach Jamie Berg of Oakville told the Yakima Herald-Republic. "All clean-cut, polite, respectful. They don’t talk trash. It’s hard to find that nowadays."
Another coach calls them "the real Hoosiers." Officials routinely comment that the kids are the nicest ones they encounter anywhere.
Last year, the team started to impress people on the court, too, winning five games. This year they won six out of nine home games in front of crowds that approached 150 people (up from 3 a few years ago) and have made it to the Class 1B state championship tournament. No matter how they fare, their story can have nothing but a happy ending.
• Pentucket Regional High School, West Newbury, Massachusetts. Despite having no track facility (sprinting and hurdling practice is done in the hallways), Pentucket’s girl’s track team went undefeated this year. But it’s not the wins that the girls care about. It’s their behavior.
With more than 40 of the 62-girl roster on the honor roll and high honor roll, the team has won the Cape Ann League sportsmanship award four of the last six years. The girls shake hands with their opponents before and after each event and pick up leftover equipment after each meet.
"The other day one of the boys from the other school said it was the first time he had seen another team pick up after his team,” senior captain Christine Roy told the Newbury Port News.
Coach Steve Derro says that’s what gives him the greatest joy. "What I tell every team before the season begins is I don’t care what our record says at the end of the year. If we improve week to week and compete with good sportsmanship, then we will have had a successful season."
[www.yakima-herald.com, 2/20/08; www.newburyportnews.com]
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Coaching is not a natural way of life.
Your victories and losses are too clear-cut.
-- Tommy Prothro, football coach (1920-1995)
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COMMENTARY BY
MICHAEL JOSEPHSON
No One Gets a Free Pass
Even though the recent Congressional hearings featuring baseball pitcher Roger Clemens and his former trainer may have been a case of political grandstanding, we shouldn’t underestimate their value.
Without political pressure, there would have been no Mitchell Report, and Major League Baseball may still be denying it has a serious drug problem. On the other hand, professional sports can’t endure too many more embarrassing public hearings or government mandates. Instead of criticizing Congressional motives, they should undertake a serious effort to clean up their own mess.
Sports play too important a role in shaping social attitudes about fair play and integrity to trivialize decisions by high-profile athletes to cheat and then lie about it. We have a right to expect that our highest achieving athletes will pursue victory with honor, and those who taint the game and their careers should be exposed and held accountable.
Setting a poor example by cheating with unhealthy performance-enhancing drugs is bad enough, but lying under oath is a felony that can’t be dismissed with a cynical "who cares?" attitude.
I may be wrong, but I’m convinced Clemens, Barry Bonds, and others took drugs and then lied about it to protect their legacy. I suspect they justified their conduct because they knew many others were doing it and assumed if they got caught, their denials would be enough.
On one level we can sympathize and understand why they chose the well-worn path of moral compromise, but we can’t condone or ignore their choice.
Lying is a big deal. Ask media darling Martha Stewart, Olympic gold medalist Marion Jones, or Enron’s Jeffrey Skilling – all of whom were jailed for making false statements.
No one gets a free pass.
This is Michael Josephson reminding you that character counts.
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